Some children don’t like the tactile sensation of “messiness”. They dislike slimy sensory play; the slimy feeling of paint on their hands. They don’t play in the dirt. They avoid puddles in the rain. When doing art and craft activities, they are very neat and do not get sticky glue all over their hands.

My children are the antithesis of all that. They adore slimy sensory play. Their craft experience is about feeling the glue and paint. Any outdoor excursion is incomplete if one’s hands does not gather up sticks, rocks, dirt or a combination of all three.

Gelatine warfare is made for children, who like my children thrive on slimy sensory play.


Inspired by TinkerLab’s Jell-O Excavation, I attempted to stage a dinosaur excavation of our own. Never one for using exact measurements, (which might explain why so many of my baking attempts fail), I mixed a sachet of gelatine with as much water as my silicon bundt cake pan would hold. I placed a few small toy dinosaurs in the mix, popped it in the fridge overnight and looked forward to the thrills of dinosaur excavation.

The next day, to free the gelatine concoction from the mould, I ran the back of the mould under a steady stream of hot water. SLURP. The gelatine concoction did not slide out whole as planned. Frustrated at the sticky mess, I was close to throwing the whole thing out. However, N & M were close by ready to excavate, and I thought the sticky mess would be an interesting sensory medium for them to play with.

I placed the ungraceful goop in an old baby bath, added large spoons and various containers. N & M added their own action figures and before I knew it N & M were staging their own gelatine warfare.

  There were casualties.

Some sort of blast occurred. (M provided matching exploding sound effects).

A brave commando slides through the middle of the bundt mould.

The team comes to help the fallen soldier.




No action figures were harmed. They’ve all been cleaned up and are ready for another day of duty. These guys scored a tough gig!


Reflecting on N&M’s sensory play experience with gelatine warfare, I became curious about the development and importance of a child’s sense of touch. How does a child’s experiences of touch impact their overall development, if at all? Is it an area that needs attention and support from parents and teachers, or does the sense of touch develop more in a laissez-faire manner?  I read Eliot, L 1999, ‘The importance of touch’, in What’s going on in there?, Bantam Books, New York and learnt the following lessons.

Big idea: A child’s early experiences at touching and being touched, through their infancy, toddler and preschool years are incredibly important for not only developing tactile sensitivity, motor skills and understanding the physical world but also for their overall health and emotional well-being. Eliot (1999, p.123).

Interesting tidbits:

  • Rats raised in a highly enriched environment (where extra tactile experiences were provided via extra grooming or the provision of tactile toys that were changed at least twice a week), developed and sustained  a thicker cerebral cortex compared to rats raised in a standard laboratory environment. Eliot, (1999, p.129).
  • Though the sense of touch is one of a baby’s most advanced abilities at birth, it is far from mature. By a child’s first birthday touch information is processed about four times faster than at birth. By six years of age, the processing speed would have doubled once more, reaching a level very close to that of an adult. Eliot, (1999, p.131).
  • The mouth is the first region to become sensitive. Even at five years of age, children’s touch sensitivity remains greater in the face than on their hands. Eliot, (1999, p.131).
  • Massage therapy has been found to improve the clinical course of children with all sorts of medical problems, including asthma, diabetes, cancer, autism, skin problems, juvenile arthritis, eating disorders and other psychiatric syndromes. In general, children show lower anxiety and stress levels, better mood, improved sleep patterns, and higher levels of attentiveness when treated to a daily massage by their parents. Eliot, (1999, p.141).

Implications & Applications:

Each child is a unique developing individual. Each has their own preferences in regards to tactile play. For some, gooey slime is the stuff of dreams. For others a clean, smooth canvas is more to their delight. Whatever their tactile disposition, as long as it forms part of a child’s enriched environment, it is helpful for their development. I am challenged to not dismiss or discourage a child’s tactile disposition because it may clash with my own disposition. I am convicted to be mindful of the words I use and the messages my body language and facial gestures may convey – (the shameful number of times I’ve wrinkled my nose or uttered, “Oh, what a mess!”).

As a primary school teacher, I am mindful of the child protection laws in place to protect children from predators. I note however Eliot’s point about the importance of touch to a child’s physical and psychological well being. Perhaps I need to be more generous with the number of “side by side” hugs I give my students. As a mother, I am determined to give my children as many hugs and kisses as they want from me. As for treating my children with a daily massage, I think I will start that routine, (and one day perhaps my children will realise that I too would show lower anxiety and stress levels, better mood, improved sleep patters and higher levels of attentiveness if treated to one daily).


N & M: 2 years 10 months
March 2011; published August 2011.


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Pauline Pauline & Lessons Learnt Journal is all about life with kids. Pauline is an Aussie mum and teacher who shares her love for play, math games, writing and reading activities. She believes that #playmatters, values curiosity & wonder, wisdom, obedience and respect. She also needs naps. When not blogging, she may be found virtually hoarding on Pinterest, trying to decide which Instagram filter to apply, or compulsively refreshing her Facebook feed.